sister_raphael: (busywriting)
Sneeky peeky! Release date is tentatively set at Spring in the USA, but I'll wait for a definitive before I start getting too excited!

I particularly love the single girl with her cat making the chaplet with flowers. Nothing is set in stone until it comes out, of course, but the artwork has been tentatively approved and all we need to agree on are a few things like the subtitle which will go inside the book, the final release day, how many pictures I can include and whether or not the sources can e included in the book. It's quite a lot of words, but I really do feel that it's very important that I have them, so I have a cunning plan for if I need to cut a lot of words to fit their book format.

Anyway, it's full steam ahead!

sister_raphael: (youcantmakeme)

The widow Felmersham was clearly not of a true religious vocation. Not unsurprisingly, this is not an uncommon occurrence in court cases involving nunneries and medieval women. Nunneries were a convenient place to stash young girls for their own protection and sometimes, to get a small education of sorts, while she waited for a suitable husband to be found by well-meaning family. Some were subdued into a life of religion and scheduled prayer and work but others used them more like boarding houses to be used at their own whims and convenience.

Nunneries also accepted wealthy widows who wished to avoid remarriage but had no real religious vocation, so as much as they were happy to accept the income these women provided, the resident nuns-in-charge had their hands full keeping these secular women in check.

Often they were permitted to wear regular secular clothing and jewellery, skip prayers, eat whatever they liked and have friends sleep over. Parties could get rowdy, much to the annoyance of the women who lived there who were diligently trying to live a devout and holy life of contemplation.

Complaints were common and many made their way into courts or complaint books to be dealt with by visiting deacons. Many with little success, it seems, as some records show that the same women might pop up repeatedly or be passed from place to place.

For more stories of actual medieval women, you know where to go.




sister_raphael: (tools)

I'm very excited to announce that I've successfully made my very own little Square shop. It's similar to Etsy, but I can manage everything, and they only take commission on sales, not have a monthly fee likes other online marketing tools.

It was a not much of a challenge to make the website and the phone app all sync and get the stock to be the same and learn how to manage it with my own mobile hotspot. A few little hiccups, but easily navigated. It has a great little card reader, so now for the first time, people can use their credit cards to buy things!

I did have trouble with the shipping estimator, but since I have prices for shipping from my post office, the best work around for me was to create multiple listings INCLUDING the postage to different countries. The shopper just needs to select the item with the right country flag on it and they can pay for the item plus shipping. It's a small problem if someone wants a few heavy things in the one package, but they can contact me directly if it's over a certain weight and I can work around there.

I don't have so many sales myself that I can't make this a workable solution, so it's working great for me!

I used photos of my niece, who has been very kind about letting me use her face on things and I love the colour scheme and clean look of the site. I've been able to link my Things For Sale on my regular Rosalie's Medieval Woman website to the shop and so far, that's worked well too, so that all my old links remain in place but point here.

sister_raphael: (booksaresexy)
I made a pretty great discovery while I was messing around in Goodreads, and that was even though I self-published the new book, I was still able to add it to my author bookshelf so people can leave reviews! The cover is up and I feel super proud that I now have 2 books under my name.

A bit chuffed, really.

The Rosalie's Medieval Woman Online store has had a bit of an overhaul too.  Also chuffed with that too!



sister_raphael: (booksaremything)


It's Love Your Bookshop Day 2023 on Saturday, 7th of October and I will be there loving my local Books@Stones Book Shop at Stones Corner in Brisbane. Co-incidentally, it's their 13th birthday too, so there will be an array of celebratory activities... face painting! Balloon shapes! Book signings! Discounts! Free Stuff!

And yours truly will be there in costume on the footpath signing my newest book, Medieval Wisdom for Modern Women: Self Care Advice & Warnings From The Middle Ages That You Still Need Today. I'm just so excited that it's been in my house for less than a week and already orders are coming in, I have a nice review and my amazing local book shop has leaped up to be the very first shop to stock the book! Other orders are already coming in, though, so hopefully it'll be available in more places.

Overseas shipping continues to be a headache, but since two or three books will squeeze into a postpack, I heartily recommend making the most of the post and share the shipping with a friend or two. Meanwhile, give your local bookshop some love.
sister_raphael: (busywriting)
I've needed to make a new footer for posts on my Author blog page for the new Medieval Wisdom for Modern Women book, so I did that today keeping in with the general pink theme.

And I've needed to update the other footer to add in the new book at the bottom and add a link to the website for ordering. So that's done too now.

The pre-book things continue getting all the things done for promotions... stickers to go on delivery boxes, new business cards with the cover on, a cute set of promotional bookmarks and a couple of coffee mugs for prize pack giveaways. At this point, it's all Australian posting. I looked into an Amazon release as well but to sell soft covers as actual books, I need to pay them to print them, which is essentially what I'm doing now here in Brisbane.o unless they get picked up by an actual publisher overseas, they'll not be going outside of Australia due to the horrendous postage pricing.

The Rosalie's Medieval Woman Online Shop is in place, upgraded from the other book shopping page, but there's no actual cart yet. People will need to email me with their order and use the PaypalMe function that Paypal has where I request a payment, so much like an invoice. It's better than nothing, and cheaper than an e-commerce business package or Etsy shop because I really don't think I'm going to sell huge quantities. Local bookshops, the museum shop and places which stock my other book are my main sellers anyway, so I feel it's not the end of the world. My son, who is in IT is checking out drop in webshops for me and we may have an affordable solution there. Maybe I need to re-look at Etsy but I think there are monthly fees which may outstrip what I make.

Anyway, busy weekend of getting things ready and getting promotional emails out ready for books to arrive, so they can go into shop Xmas catalogues as sweet little stocking fillers.

Wish me luck!





sister_raphael: (chocolate)


This is Alice Boyton, changing her status from In A Relationship With God to It's Complicated.

It's no real secret that women were often dumped into nunneries for the convenience of others and not willingly from a true religious vocation. Our Alice, it seems, was the latter. There are many reasons why a medieval woman might be sent to a nunnery. These include, but are not limited to:
  • A daughter kept away from unsuitable suitors until a husband could be found.
  • A bit of an education (to a point)
  • A grab for assets
  • An actual religious vocation
  • Avoiding to provide a dowry upon marriage
  • Point-scoring with God
Either way, most of these involved not asking the woman involved or talking her into it against her will.

The life of Heloise, mistress then wife of famed medieval scholar Peter Abelarde was one such arrangement. Heloise had absolutely no vocation at all and her correspondence with him reflects this quite vividly. One feels poor Alice Boyton may have been in such a position- an inconvenient women shoved into a life where she would be no trouble to others.



Except it seems to not have worked out that way. Complaints about her bad behaviour made the church records and the fact that she wasn't to be let out unless accompanied by a sensible woman firmly in charge of her lefts us know that she was proving to be a bit of a handful.

Poor Alice. At least she wasn't going quietly!
 
For more snippets of medieval women's lives, The Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Women is available online and in all good book shops, and is currently 30% off until the end of January at Mango Publishing

sister_raphael: welldone (welldone)

I absolutely love it when people share photos with me like this! And how gorgeous is this photo of Mila Grimm from a re-enactment group in Shrewsbury, England called  The Corbet Household?

Photo taken by Adam from Photos by ABN
sister_raphael: thatsfantastic (thatsfantastic)


I'm very excited to announce that Kryal Castle in Victoria, Australia is now stocking "The Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Women" in their Exit Shop.

That's right, after a fun-filled day of medieval-themed adventure, you can pick up a copy for yourself or as a gift for an unsuspecting loved one! It features the new non-sexy dust jacket as requested by the venue, but it's still the same book underneath!
sister_raphael: doingart (doingart)

The Victorian Medieval Festival is over and I'm happy to be back home. It was an absolutely wonderful event, which was a new venue for me. I had a few ups and downs, but on the whole, the display was well received, and I spent most of the two days straight with limited toilet breaks and a lot of very interested members of the public.

There was no Grand Parade, so for the first time ever, I got to just set up, put on the clothes I was wearing for the day, and stay in them. It was pretty warm, so as a bath attendant, I wore just a chemise and headwear and went barefoot! It was such a hot day and although I was inside my tent, the angle of the sun meant on the first day I got horribly, horribly sunburnt.

Very sadly, the brass pan I was waiting for for the display arrived a day after we departed home for our epic road trip across three states to get there. We needed to dodge a lot of flooding and closed roads so the trip added substantial extra miles, petrol and another 6 hours travel time at least. Happily, I had packed a wooden bowl which, while not what I wanted, did the job. The new basin has since arrived and is just perfect!



The lavarbo itself was a huge hit with members of the public who not only enjoyed it as an item, per se, but also enjoyed having a few drops of rosewater splashed onto their hands to try. I also has herb bathwater samples and my friend Michelle from who had a 14th century Surgeon display next to me made some of Trotula's tooth powder for me in between talks and people. My own Trotula's hair powder was also much loved by people, so that was fantastic too!

All in all, a really fun event!


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