sister_raphael: welldone (welldone)

I absolutely love it when people share photos with me like this! And how gorgeous is this photo of Mila Grimm from a re-enactment group in Shrewsbury, England called  The Corbet Household?

Photo taken by Adam from Photos by ABN
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I'm very excited to announce that Kryal Castle in Victoria, Australia is now stocking "The Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Women" in their Exit Shop.

That's right, after a fun-filled day of medieval-themed adventure, you can pick up a copy for yourself or as a gift for an unsuspecting loved one! It features the new non-sexy dust jacket as requested by the venue, but it's still the same book underneath!
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The Victorian Medieval Festival is over and I'm happy to be back home. It was an absolutely wonderful event, which was a new venue for me. I had a few ups and downs, but on the whole, the display was well received, and I spent most of the two days straight with limited toilet breaks and a lot of very interested members of the public.

There was no Grand Parade, so for the first time ever, I got to just set up, put on the clothes I was wearing for the day, and stay in them. It was pretty warm, so as a bath attendant, I wore just a chemise and headwear and went barefoot! It was such a hot day and although I was inside my tent, the angle of the sun meant on the first day I got horribly, horribly sunburnt.

Very sadly, the brass pan I was waiting for for the display arrived a day after we departed home for our epic road trip across three states to get there. We needed to dodge a lot of flooding and closed roads so the trip added substantial extra miles, petrol and another 6 hours travel time at least. Happily, I had packed a wooden bowl which, while not what I wanted, did the job. The new basin has since arrived and is just perfect!



The lavarbo itself was a huge hit with members of the public who not only enjoyed it as an item, per se, but also enjoyed having a few drops of rosewater splashed onto their hands to try. I also has herb bathwater samples and my friend Michelle from who had a 14th century Surgeon display next to me made some of Trotula's tooth powder for me in between talks and people. My own Trotula's hair powder was also much loved by people, so that was fantastic too!

All in all, a really fun event!


sister_raphael: (boobies)


Look, I know we are all sick of hearing about it, but by now we all understand the challenges I've faced with publishing and the front cover of my book. This week I had dealings with a venue which was hoping to sell my book over the course of a medieval event, but, in an exceptionally tactless way, informed me that they felt the cover was (and I quote) "A bit on the nose" and that it wasn't suitable for a family-friendly festival in their gift shop.

I completely understand that the original cover screams SEX in large, unwieldy letters, which is one of the reasons I printed a dust jacket. That and the nipple censorship thing, of course.

The venue was not particularly happy with the dust jacket either, so with an extremely limited time frame, I got this one off to the printer for a new dust jacket. The venue conceded that this one was (and again, I quote) "A bit better." They insist that the book be wrapped somehow so it can't be perused by potential customers. I really would have just given it all a solid miss for the way they feel, except for the fact that they are actually potentially interested in stocking my book all year round.

Anyway, I'm now waiting for these to arrive, so I can trim them and wrap the books with their new "bit better, less on the nose" jackets.



sister_raphael: (gummi)

When writing about medieval women and sex, one's thoughts turn to gifts of love or companions for our single lady forebears.

Did we like cats? What's not to love?

Cats were often seen as being sexually promiscuous due to their reproductive abilities, so there was a concern that their lustiness might rub off on their female owners, but by and large, cats were seen to be a suitable companion for a woman. Even a nun might have one for a pet, as long as it was not overly coddled and was mainly for catching mice.

For more of medieval women, why not explore more? The Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Women is available online and in all good book shops.
sister_raphael: (boobies)

Mango Publishing would like me to remind you that it's 69 days (stop that snickering) until Christmas. Now there's a spooky thought for you.

Why not horrify your Secret Santa with a copy of The Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Women?

They sure won't see it coming? (look, cut it out, okay?)
sister_raphael: (boobies)

We are LIVE! The interview you've been waiting for or dreading: Rosalie speaks candidly with Shad Brooks from You Tube's  Shadiversity You Tube channel, and it's now LIVE HERE.

In July, just gone, Shad visited my Rosalie's Medieval Woman tent at the Abbey Medieval Festival for a few words about medieval women, and he had questions. Many questions. Was he always that bright red or did he get redder as we went along? You decide for yourself. While the topic was sensitive, so were the euphemisms employed to ensure the conversation stayed safe for most ears.



Of course, there are many things that can't be discussed fully online in polite company, so some tid-bits of information were only hinted at.

And of course, if you've watched and would like to learn more, there's an entire book you might care to explore. Available online or ask your local book store to get a copy in for you.


sister_raphael: (sigh)

Church records are usually incomplete when it comes to the finer details of court appearances, citing only the bare bones of the cases. This is often frustrating for historical researchers, but it does allow a very small glimpse at the lives of medieval women, and very often, gives them a name.

From Lincoln in England, we find Joan Willys, who was a household servant.

She is named as part of a case in the Visitations records in Lincoln, England where her employer, John Hunt has been taken to task for improper conduct, namely living unmarried and having a sexual relationship with her as his servant.

Joan has taken certain herbs to terminate a pregnancy, but later is married to the man in question. No indication is given whether she was a willing participant in the intimate activities or whether she had no choice and was forced as his household servant. Either way, the use of the word "persuaded" when it comes to the part about ending her pregnancy is used, hinting that perhaps she wasn't entirely on board with that part.

Many medieval women had a strong church background and the fear of hell was absolutely a real thing, so deliberately ending a pregnancy may have been a decision she may not have been comfortable with.

After the Visitation, John and Joan were married, but again, there is no indication whether this was a state desired by both of them. There are a number of reasons why the marriage happened:

1. forced upon them under pain of being removed from the church
2. to legitimise John's child and provide an heir
3. they loved each other

Which of these is true, we will never know.

For more medieval women, the Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Women is available online and through all good book sellers.

sister_raphael: thatsfantastic (thatsfantastic)

It was a wonderful Abbey Medieval Festival at the Rosalie's Medieval Woman tent! I had a very special visit from Heraldic Illuminator, Tania Crossingham who did the cover artwork for my book, The Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Women.

Tania is Australian born but had made a wonderful life in Finland and flew in especially for the festival and some workshops on illumination for the Abbey Museum of Art and Archaeology

Pictured here, are myself, Tania and the original artwork she created for me.


 



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Love giveaways? So do I!!

You can play my medieval guessing game at the Abbey Medieval Festival this weekend and enter to WIN for FREE! Find Rosalie's Medieval Woman in the Marketplace (near Stag Inn) and say the SECRET word. That's all there is to it!

Winner called on Sunday to collect your prize. I can't post out, sorry.

Prize includes The Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Women book, bookmark, coffee mug, elderflower cordial, elderflower conserve and notebook.
sister_raphael: (boobies)
 

Well, here we are all composited into one picture! It's been impossible to get everyone together for a group photo, so that will wait until the Saturday morning at the festival. Thank goodness for digital technology.

It was a bit of fun making this, but cutting everyone out and pasting us together is time consuming. Still, it's a nice break from sewing! 

I've given the ladies the option to mask up or not, but it's a bit covid-y out and I will be. I usually hope for correct shoes, but quite frankly, I'm feeling that since we are in the Marketplace and not re-enactors (for me this year) that gumboots and dry feet are quite okay also. 

It's looking very wet on the grounds and today I would have been setting up my tent but it's too wet. I've got all my fingers crossed that it's not raining on Thursday for the grand setting up. I've packed extra surcote and hoods for warmth. I thing we will need them.

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The Abbey Medieval Festival is looming and naturally I'll be there! But where, oh where? I hard you cry?

Find the Stag Inn and I'm right across the road.

You'll be able to buy my book, admire the actual original cover art and enter my fun medieval giveaway.

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